As parents we do our best to raise healthy, happy children.  We don’t consciously make bad decisions, but inevitably we do.  Don’t beat yourself up, its part of the process. Always communicate with your kids – and this is the important part…apologize when you make a mistake.  I always tell my children, I’m trying my best and don’t intentionally try and screw them up, but I’m sure I do. The solution – I promise them I will always pay for their therapy!!